Nanny vs. Au Pair: Key Differences for Families Seeking Childcare

We're excited to feature a guest post from one of our talented community members, Emily Dills, who brings a personal and practical perspective to a question many families face: What’s the difference between a nanny and an au pair? In this post, Emily breaks down the key differences—from qualifications and schedules to cultural impact and cost—helping parents make the best decision for their unique family needs.

If you’re exploring childcare options, you’ve probably wondered: What’s the difference between a nanny and an au pair? On the surface, they both provide care for your children at home, but in reality, they offer very different experiences for both children and parents.

Many families find themselves considering these options, especially when juggling work schedules, budgets, and the desire for a safe, enriching environment for their children. So, let’s break down the key differences in qualifications, living arrangements, schedules, and costs with real-life insight from families and former au pairs.

Are Nannies and Au Pairs the Same?

Nannies and au pairs are definitely not the same, and people with firsthand experience will tell you as much.

“In my experience, no. I was like an older sister to my host kids and a friend to the parents. You’re not a nanny at all. I was treated like a family member. Their problems were my problems, their fun was my fun, their celebrations were my celebrations. It was a wonderful experience.” – Former Au Pair

“No. They’re more like big sisters. None of mine have professional childcare experience. They’re here to care for children while learning English.” – Host Family

These quotes highlight something important: an au pair is part of your home life in a personal, cultural way while a nanny is more of a trained, hired professional.

Be sure to check out more of Emily’s insights over at her blog (Emily's Blog)!